Often in life, we try to pursue something that we really want and of what we dearly need, for the sake of ourself or someone who we love/like very much.
As we go through that treacherous journey, little we realize that we are speeding without looking backward , left or right. That is because we are taught to live and to look forward and never to look behind anymore. We'll do any sort of means to fulfill that responsibility or roles that we are in. Many people failed to realized that, as we sped, we missed what is truly important in life.
It is like driving on the road. Lets treat the traffice lights, other vehicles, signboards, and other road obstructions are the building barricades of our journey in life. As we sped, we weave to avoid all these obstruction. The faster we go, the more dangerous it is. When things get faster, we tend to lose our sanity. We lose our mind, we start to follow our emotion. Anything that stops around our way, we'll get very angry. When we get angry, we honk incoming cars, tailgating slow cars and do all sort of inappropriate behaviour on the road.
The same thing happen in our real life situation. I often look back to see the car behind me to see if the driver got upset with my beserk driving skill. I would see from the rear mirror, and i could see and tell the driver's frustration. And sometimes they just shake their head to show their disappointment.
In my life, i use to sped and never look back. Many people did that, and failed to realized that, we got to look back and reflect through the rear mirror our life, to see the expression of others as a result of our action. What we said to others and how we treat others in this life, brings significant repercussion in the future. Be good to others, be humble, and take what it is given. Be grateful that we are not living worst than the people of the third world. Appreciate that God gave us a chance to live another day tomorrow.
Look back and learn our mistake. Leave what's bad and take what's good and bring it into the future.
I learned to realized that anger does not solve problem. It creates more problem and enemy. I learned to control it before it controls me. Problems are always there. Its a matter of solving it. And not putting it into a blame on others. But its an education for us to enhance our knowledge and skills as a survivor on this planet.
Practice makes perfect, but no one is perfect, so why need to practice? Just learn and go through it.
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